There are people who will notify you before finally breaking up with you either by calling or texting.
Some will even invite you over and tell it to your face. They drop it ‘as e dey hot’ and then leave you standing there in your confused state. Just like that. Straight talk. No beating around the bush.
Some crazy ones will invite you over or visit you and give you a parting hot s^x and then release the bomb on you. It sounds crazy right? Yeah, but they do this.
Then there are those, who because of their timidity or guilty conscience for having wasted your time (6 years relationship), they are scared to tell you to your face, but devise another means to tell you through their actions.
They’ll intentionally frustrate you, hoping and wishing you get fed up and end things yourself, they want you to get the message and move on.
There are also some that in their mind has already ended the relationship with you long ago. In your mind you are still in relationship with her. Yes, you are right. You are still in the relationship but you’re only dating yourself.
HERE ARE 3 SUBTLE SIGNS THAT SOMEONE IS TIRED OF YOU
- THEY AVOID YOUR CALLS
It’s one thing if they suddenly stop calling you even when they are not busy, but that they are now avoiding your calls too, and when you call with a strange number, they pick immediately. You should know now that ‘It’s Over’. MOVE ON!
They blacklist your number thereby deny you of getting access to them.
They read your chats and don’t reply (unlike before) even when they are online. Even when they reply, it takes days for them to give you their ‘boring’ ‘K’ ‘kk’ replies.
They no longer text you or reply your texts.
- THEY AVOID YOU
They live in the same neighborhood, or you attend same church, office, but suddenly they are too busy to see you, they avoid eye contact. You saw him/her just now, before you know it, s/he’s gone without saying ‘Hi’ to you, and later they cough up an excuse that looks like what a cat threw up.
When they are slowly withdrawing from you, physically, emotionally, financially, something has happened. MOVE ON!
- THEY GIVE YOU UNNECESSARY ATTITUDE
The relationship is becoming unnecessarily hard.
Complains fly like shrapnel at every little thing. Quarrels become more frequent, even for no justifiable, tangible reason. Nothing you do this time that they will appreciate. They nag at every little things unnecessarily.
And then you hear
“if you are tired of me, you can go, I’m not begging you”, at this point, they are tired of you.
Majority of those who will say those words to you will not mourn you if they lose you…
To be continued….